Even I am afraid of falling in love, it is too sweet and interesting for me to go back and forth without being explicit but sharing my heart with each other. It is not the case to get along with each other. To get along with each other is to constantly magnify the shortcomings, but take those good things for granted.
are you as afraid of being bound as I am?
it seems that love is a lighter and lighter thing in our generation. It seems that there is no need to carry the weight of a lifetime when I say the word "I love you". and when I hear someone say that I will always love you, rest assured, I never doubt, I absolutely believe in his sincerity at the moment, and will never investigate the timeliness of love words.
instead of emptying your mind to please another person, try your best to maintain a relationship. People love freedom, self-fulfillment, and chasing things that can be controlled in their own hands. Yes, even Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling) will come to an end. However, it is only believed by ghosts for a long time.
I am afraid of getting married. Apart from feeling that I can't bear this responsibility, I also have a fear that I will inevitably be bound by this relationship. I can't bear to turn a couple full of enthusiasm and curiosity into two people who are more or less tired of complaining.
even I am afraid of falling in love, it is too sweet and interesting for me to communicate with each other without being explicit. It is not the case to get along with each other. To get along with each other is to constantly magnify the shortcomings, but take those good things for granted.
on the one hand, I am eager to treat each other with all sincerity and advance and retreat together. On the other hand, I am afraid that people will take care of my clothing, food, housing, transportation and even my inner private realm. In the past, my boyfriend forbade me to drink, and I couldn't even drink alone with him and my friends. I wanted to be arrogant over my head at that time, and the more things he was not allowed to do, the more I wanted to play games with him. I have said a lot of things, such as trying to make him understand that we are all independent and free individuals, and that when we are together, we still have to risk more space together, rather than locking each other in our own world. But even if it is a thousand words, he only has one sentence, I do not like you like this, just do it for me, change it, just change such a thing.
when I'm young, I'm on fire, not to mention that it sounds distressing, and I don't bother to convince him any more. I'm fucking like this. Unless I want to change it myself, I'll never change it for someone else. No matter how small it is, if you don't like it, then break up.
save the plot of getting rid of crying and having a hangover in the middle. Anyway, this is really the way the hand is divided. All the contact information was deleted with the flick of your finger. You see, in this modern society, science and technology are developed, and all kinds of love have to rely on an electronic medium. It is convenient to find people, and it is more convenient to isolate a person.
later, I was almost determined to have a relaxed and happy relationship. I don't like to control people, and I don't want to be controlled by anyone. What's wrong with having fun together and having fun with each other?
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luckily, I did come across such an one. I am only a few months older, but I have an almost fascinating calm and relaxed self-confidence. I am used to self-confidence, so I especially prefer a man who is extremely confident, even if he is a little conceited. My friends tease me because I love myself too much, so I like people who are very much like me. I waved my hand, and I said, you son of a bitch, do you know how to enjoy it wholeheartedly only when you meet your opponent?
We have been together for more than a year. We have no rules, we are basically arbitrary, we don't say much about love, but our curiosity has never been extinguished. He thinks I'm funny and unique. I think he's unfathomable. But have you ever felt the sense of security that you thought existed but was hard to feel. Always feel that such a relationship did not fall into a home with fireworks.
once he told me, I don't think I can hold you.
I have a poor mouth. I say no, and my boobs are not that big.
he said, seriously, I really like you, and I prefer this state of being with you, comfortable and unfettered, which has almost nothing to lose to a man. But every man not only wants to have freedom, but also greedily wants to build a solid harbor behind freedom. Men don't like women to be too noisy, but they also hope that there is a woman around them who can make a small fuss.
I stopped him, how smart I am, from the beginning of this serious topic, I basically understand what he wants to say. I said, you are right, and people are greedy for freedom and bondage, in fact, there is no distinction between men and women. It's the same for all of us.
after this breakup, I was confused for a long time. I thought I knew myself, my love and resistance, but suddenly I found that I couldn't tell the difference. The only thing I can figure out is that I know that bondage or freedom can not be all and none at all. When you buy something back, you can't blame it for the lack of money in your wallet, freedom, and a down-to-earth sense of security. Behind it, there is a fair thing called price. You only want the good, but you don't want to pay the price. You can't do that. You can't be such a thief.
is it possible that love itself is lovely because it is bound, and that love itself is lovely because it is not reconciled to being bound? I still can't understand whether love is to control people, to be bound by others, or to let people seek an independent space. I hope you can understand a little better than me, but you don't have to think clearly about everything.
anyway, in a hurry, there are too many things I don't know, or because I don't know what's going to happen, it may be a lot more fun in the future. Oh, don't dodge.